Parents can help lessen negative effects of divorce on kids

On Behalf of | Jan 26, 2021 | Uncategorized |

Having kids changes a person’s life entirely. Nearly every decision a parent makes also needs to take the children into consideration. While many Ohio parents likely know that divorce could have serious effects on their kids, they may also feel that it is the best choice for everyone involved. Certainly, the ending of their parents’ marriage can have emotional effects on kids, some of which are not positive, but parents can do their part to limit those negative outcomes.

One of the biggest issues that can contribute to children facing emotional difficulties as a result of their parents’ divorce is if the parents fight in front of the kids. Exposure to conflict can easily make children — of any age — feel uneasy, tense, upset and on edge. Even after the fighting is over, children can still have fear of abandonment issues and may continue to develop feelings of anxiety, stress and fear after the divorce is over.

Fortunately, if parents avoid fighting in front of their kids, they can vastly reduce the chances of their children developing these common issues. However, it is important to remember that conflict does not just mean verbal arguments in front of the kids. Parents who use their children as messengers to talk to the other parent, put their kids in the middle of difficult situations or even badmouth the other parent in front of the kids can create conflict that contributes to detrimental effects on the children’s mental health.

If Ohio parents do feel that getting a divorce is for the best, they do not have to feel bad about their decision. Though it can be difficult for the kids to get through, parents can do their part to see the process through as smoothly as possible. Exploring their child custody options and finding terms that would allow them to parent their kids as best as possible could prove beneficial for all.